Posted by annierose on September 19, 2009, at 22:13:07
In reply to found out some info on my T via facebook, posted by deerock on September 19, 2009, at 22:02:22
I do think it is alarming (maybe that is too strong of a word) surprising that she would not set her page to private. I am not a facebook person, but my daughter is. And no one can see her page unless she friends them (i.e. wants them to see her page). You would think, a therapist, would make sure her page would be private.
I wonder what Freud would say about this ...
But I agree, it would change your dynamic with her ... at least in the short term. As time goes on, it will probably diminish in importance. You got this sneak peek into her life and it's a little awkward. My t shares extremely little private information. And the few times she does tell me something random, it is weird. So I know what you mean.
I often tell my t, as much as I wish I knew more about her, I'm glad I don't.
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