Posted by Dinah on March 16, 2009, at 19:51:39
In reply to wouldn't you know--she called this morning, posted by raisinb on March 16, 2009, at 17:11:29
I don't understand it, but I sure have experienced it. I felt pretty much what you are feeling. Keeping in touch with me was obviously not that important to him. When something happens in their lives, our place in it is all too clear.
I wanted to break free while I had a chance. After all I'd gotten along without him. If not swimmingly than at least I had gotten through.
Yet the second I heard his voice, and heard he would be available to see me, I felt the same pull and anxiety as if he had never left.
I wish I understood it better. But I think you're right to concentrate your emotional energy where it would be most useful to you right now. Good luck on Thursday!
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