Posted by garnet71 on March 7, 2009, at 18:05:04
In reply to Sexual Misconduct/ What my T has said and Done, posted by sassyfrancesca on March 6, 2009, at 12:30:16
Saasy--it sounds as though you need to establish firm boundaries with your T. For example, tell him you are uncomfortable with any touching, outright flirting, or sexual innuendous.
Did you establish boundaries after he crossed the line (of unwritten boundaries)? I only ask because I've had problems with boundaries at some times in the past.
I'ts amazing to me all the stories bet. patients and therapists I've read on here. I've always chosen therapists of the same sex, so I can't generally say I know what its like. My very first T, an older man, was the very best at understanding me...unfortunately he died of pancreatic cancer...I'd only had less than a dozen sessions with him....still, I was devasted when I found out he passed. He was remarkable and no T has come close to him since.
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