Posted by fleeting flutterby on March 7, 2009, at 10:04:55
In reply to Re: Sexual Misconduct/ What my T has said and Done » fleeting flutterby, posted by sassyfrancesca on March 6, 2009, at 14:45:42
> >Oh, Flutterby, you are so sweet!<
----flutterby: thank you Sassy :o)
>> When I went to the American Counseling Convention in Hawaii last year, he was there and told me he was looking for me at the dance!<<---- flutterby: I can imagine he said that-- it keeps you in the throws of your fantasy-- and his desire to be so very wanted.
> That is what my girlfriend sez.<---- flutterby: Do you think maybe you should heed what your girlfriend has to say? She might see things a bit clearer because she's not looking through the fog of emotions like you might be. (those emotions can make 20/20 vision impossible sometimes)
> That is so sad; what has happened to her? He should lose his license!<<----flutterby: Yes it is VERY sad when one who should be trusted with others emotions violates boundaries. To make a long story short and also keep her(my email friend) privacy in mind..... the therapist did lose his license in that state-- but can move to another state and practice, as far as I understand. As for her-- I've unfortunately lost contact with her.... it's my fault.... I didn't know how to handle it all(she emailed me just before she tried to kill herself and I was too confused to know how to help, and then found out she was in ICU.... if she would have died I would have never been able to forgive myself... so, not knowing how else to cope... I gradually distanced myself from her).... but from what i've heard, she is doing OK and trying to heal from yet another mental injury. I do hold her dear in my heart and wish her the best in her life.
>> I called another t; will see about making an appointment.<<------ flutterby: Oh, I am crossing my fingers that you will finally get the help you so deserve.
-------I can understand it will be difficult, but keep in mind that you are worth so much-- and don't have to lower your standards to being used for a selfish person's ego trip. (hope that was OK to say...*shrugs* )
wishing you the best,
flutterby-mandy
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