Posted by raisinb on January 26, 2009, at 20:14:22
In reply to Canceling, posted by Suedehead on January 26, 2009, at 19:25:08
Oh yeah, I used to do that often. I was permanently pissed for about two years, and usually, if yelling, withdrawing, and sniping at her didn't work, I'd cancel as sort of last-ditch communication attempt. Once I even said to her, "I feel like I have to quit to get you to listen to me."
Once I didn't cancel and just didn't show. She called me several times and said she "freaked out," and was much more worried than I thought she'd be. I felt guilty then and haven't done that since.
She always brings up any cancellation and the reasons behind it.
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thread:876416
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