Posted by Dinah on November 13, 2008, at 14:34:27
In reply to Re: And of course » Dinah, posted by gardenergirl on November 13, 2008, at 13:35:59
Perhaps you felt led to add that because of how I am with him? I'm so pushy. I'm sure none of his other clients demand so much from him. I'm so darn in tune with what's going on with him that I probably push way way more than I should to get him to be open with me. Not in the sense of asking him to tell me what's going on in his life. But in not allowing him anything in his psyche to prevent him from being present in the moment. But maybe it amounts to the same thing. I trample his boundaries mercilessly in session. He says he's ok with that. He says that's part of what fighting to relationship is. He says he doesn't *think* he minds that I read him like an open book.
Hmmm... I initially wrote "what's going on with me". Perhaps I *should* be better about respecting his boundaries.
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