Posted by JouezMoi on October 30, 2008, at 6:06:46
In reply to Re: Ill-advised emails, posted by Daisym on October 29, 2008, at 22:32:13
This may be about learning that it's OK for two people to like eachother, and to appreciate eachother and the relationship for just what it is. There are varying opinions on disclosure (read Between Client and Therapist - The New Relationship by Michael Kohn. It is focussed on the therapist and goes into countertransference more than most books.) There is also a theory about sexual tension and social anxiety/ acceptance as the reason that sexual tension manifests. Once acceptance is granted, the sexual tension tends to disappear (doesn't do well for marriages I guess). I think it is healthy that he disclosed and more important that they roots should be explored in session.
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