Posted by twinleaf on October 12, 2008, at 13:29:00
In reply to Re: just for fun, posted by Stellabystarlight on October 11, 2008, at 14:26:18
That's a wonderful description of your therapy relationship- it sounds as though all the parts of you both are really engaged and passionate to the nth degree! To you, does it seem like the strong feelings you and he have for each other translate into growth and health? I'm asking because I suspect strong positive feelings, on both sides. do play a crucial role in helping people grow, although I don't know for sure. I also have a therapist for whom I have a range of strong feelings. And there are times when he has them, too- when there are tears in his eyes, or when he shakes his head and tells me that he feels moved by what is happening between us.
I know by reputation that he is a very good analyst, but I know by my feelings that he is very good FOR ME. It's so great when one can find that.I'd love to know other peoples' views on this.
PS Thanks for the so warm and welcoming post below!
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