Posted by Dinah on September 18, 2008, at 14:27:54
In reply to Re: Lost my dream job » Dinah, posted by antigua3 on September 18, 2008, at 13:19:05
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I don't suppose it occurs to him that the feelings need to be addressed so that the action can proceed unhindered?
It sounds as if you're prepared for this step, even if it's not ideally what you wished.
Unless the window of opportunity is too small to allow it, take some time to regret what won't be, and to gear up to whatever will be. I hesitate to use the term, but I've always thought feeling sorry for oneself has an undeservedly bad name. It may not be a great final destination, but IMO, it's a perfectly appropriate stage of the journey.
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