Posted by JayMac on September 6, 2008, at 0:28:31
In reply to My husband is in therapy, posted by Tamar on September 4, 2008, at 16:55:06
I know I kinda joined this thread late, but I just wanted to add 2 simple suggestions:
1. Do what you need to do to take care of your kids
2. Do what you need to do to take care of YOURSELF so that you can then continue to take care of your kids.I sounds like many, if not all, of us have been abused in the past or are being abused now and so we know how damaging, destructive, and difficult abuse can be. But although it is EXTREMELY difficult to get out of an abusive relationship and become healthy, you need to do what is BEST for yourself and for your children. I'm not trying to suggest you file for divorce or separate. I just want you to be safe, I want your children to be safe. You need to make the assessment of whether or not you are safe.
Many hugs to you Tamar! Take care of yourself!
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