Posted by Lemonaide on August 8, 2008, at 23:00:26
In reply to Re: Had my session today » Lemonaide, posted by Dinah on August 8, 2008, at 17:50:34
Hi Dinah,
You said something in your post that made me stop and go ut oh. The disappointment that we can have in our T's. Wow that is a big issue to me.
I am starting to feel some disappointment, when you I read some of your posts about your T forgetting stuff. Well my T is getting like that and it hurts like hell sometimes. I think our ego gets stung a little when they forget. How can they? My T would say sorry and he is only human.
I told my T that he forgot a whole session where I talked about what a "soulmate" means to me, the spiritualities, the one word you told me that I forgot about things being connected at the same time, grrrrrrrrr. When I brought up in tears that I even lost my soul mate, he took it like a romantic thing, which it totally wasn't. I told him I had it with my grandma, and I am not lusting after her.
Well he really tried not to admit he forgot, but he did. But now I see where I can be disappointed in him. Which to me is a huge issue because I think everyone ends up disappointing us at one time or another, but I take it so personally.
I remember Muffy (where is she anyway?) She said her T said that the people who we love or trust the most, will be the ones who will hurt us the worst.
Thanks DInah for your awesome post!
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