Posted by Hermitian on June 18, 2008, at 11:31:30
In reply to He called just now, posted by Happyflower on June 16, 2008, at 13:42:01
Happyflower - Don't do it!
The guy is a loser and a creep. Him talking with your new therapist provides you personally with ABSOLUTELY NO VALUE.
That guy is history. All he is doing is playing CYA because you mentioned "court". He wants to tell your guy that you are delusional or exaggerating or something. It was just a simple miscommunication.
Because if you come clean with your new guy, he may actually encourage you to seek legal redress against that pathetic boob. And he could even testify in court that you were traumatized by the creep. Which would support a mal-practice claim. Nope, that knucklehead wants to pre-empt your challenge by sowing the seed of doubt in your new guy, making him circumspect and maybe even suspect about your complaints/accusations.
If that clown was a self-absorbed creep before, what makes him less of one now? So no, do not let him insert himself in any part of your life from now on.
P.S. In fact, if you want a slice of sweet revenge, if he contacts you again, tell him to go through your attorney. Man, I'd love to see the look on his face when he hangs up the receiver.
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