Posted by sassyfrancesca on June 11, 2008, at 13:24:32
In reply to Called my old T today and left a message, posted by Happyflower on June 11, 2008, at 13:08:37
I think it is an excellent idea. It will continue to eat at you, unless you resolve it.
As for your new t talking to your new t...if that is what you said? That would be unethical and unprofessional; new T would have to have written permission.
Whatever the outcome, you can at least know you tried to "fix" what happened, put it to rest (I HATE that term "closure").......
That is all you can do; unless you find a way to resolve all the past with your old t (as I said); it will eat at you and make you miserable, and you have had enough...miserable....in your life.....dear "crazy-twin."
Hugs n Love, Sassy
(who is still......5 years later; in love with her t)
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