Posted by B2chica on May 8, 2008, at 9:38:13
In reply to Re: Arrrrggghhhh » muffled, posted by raisinb on May 8, 2008, at 9:07:45
Muffled,
my initial reaction was a sigh of relief and the word "FINALLY".
but then i wanted to say, i hope you are feeling good about this.
but you've seemed to have SO many conflicts with her it just has never seemed to help you make any progressing, so i think that's why my initial reaction was the way it was.
didn't mean to sound so blunt. but i think you followed your instinct. and though it may be tough finding another i think this is the right move for you, i really do.
take your time and find the right fit muffled.you are NOT stupid
and heck i don't understand human interaction half the time.
but i do think you need a final session, even if it only lasts 20 min. and all you do is talk about thanks for the memories and i'm moving on.
it is good for you to have closure.and it doesn't matter what she says, of course she's caring, that wasn't ever the issue was it"?
its a professional relationship that wasn't complete. it was good but it wasn't an appropriate fit. that's all, nothing wrong, nothing bad, nothing horrible, just not the best (and that won't change). and you my dear deserve the best. you need what you need and she just can't give it.(and you know her phone should NOT be ringing during session....bad therapist)
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so here's a round of applause for our muffled.
you are finally being an advocate for yourself my dear. you are standing up for yourself and for your ikids. i'm so proud of you. and i think your ikids are happy too.
congrats on your strength and growth muffled. if you need support to make sure you don't back down remember us muffled.
print out any thing you need.
take us with you.
better yet take your ikids with you, they're better than anything. they KNOW she is not right for THEM. THEY deserve better.BEST LUCK with the interviews!!
(((((((((((((((((((((((((((((muffly)))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))
b2c.
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