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Re: Ladybug, how are you doing?

Posted by LadyBug on April 28, 2008, at 23:10:16

In reply to Ladybug, how are you doing?, posted by Dinah on April 28, 2008, at 19:50:37

Well, my husband is in jail for communications fraud. He had the nerve to have a bail bondsman call me and tell me to call my sister's husband to pay the $1,000 bucks to bail him out! His bail is set at $10,000.00. I told her to tell him that there is no money and to contact his family for help. He's been there for a week now. My girls feel so bad for him. I do in a way but he got himself there.

I talked to an attorney on Friday about filing for divorce. Long story, I'm doing it on line, it's so much less money and since he's cleaned house, we have no assets to fight over so I'm thinking it will work.

I had a job interview on Friday for a job within my school district, better pay, better job. I'm hopeful. I should find out in the next day or so. They called my boss right after the interview, that's a good sign. My boss seems to think I'll get it. I hope so!!! I need the money desperately now. I need something to turn out right in my life for a change.

The big question is about my T! I called her last Monday and left her a short voice mail telling her I wasn't coming on Tues.
She called me from her home on Tuesday morning but didn't leave me a voice mail. It's 2 weeks tomorrow since I walked out of her office after she told me she gave me too much sympathy when I found out my daughter was pregnant until the adoption. Then she told me no more voice mail. I said my voice was paralyzed and left. I can't bring myself to call her yet. I know for my sake I have to face her. I have no plans of going in. I don't know what to say to her and the time that passes probably the harder it will be.
She hurt my feelings!!!!!! And then some!! I don't know how I could ever tell her anything personal ever again. I'm torn. I know she's frustrated with me and that makes me even want to stay away even more.

What a stressful week, but I hope it has a good ending. I hope to get the job I interviewed for. If not, I'll keep trying.

I trust your advice Dinah, what would you do if you were me about my T? I am lost. I'm doing ok without her. I'm filing for divorce, I'm getting a new job, both of which she has no clue.

I'm at peace with the adoption. I got to see my little grand baby on Sat. I love him with all my heart. His parents are awesome and he is truly loved and cared for as much as any baby could be.

Thanks for asking about me, sorry for the novel!
I've had a wild few weeks and it's not over.
It means a lot to me to have babble, it's the only place I've put my feelings out there about my T.

LadyBug

 

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