Posted by star008 on January 15, 2008, at 1:24:16
In reply to Star, you got me thining again! :-) » star008, posted by muffled on January 15, 2008, at 0:23:52
yeah, for some of us it is the first trusting safe
realationship we have ever been in.. One where the other person doesnt tear you down, ever. They mght make mistakes by they feel bad when they do.
I hve been with my T for years and years.. of course I love him.. not romantic.., (i got over that).. I know the limits of our friendship and that is just the way it is.My ikids are attached but the adult me is too.. I still need hm to give me relaity checks...Some of us missed the very basic tings we needed to know in order to grow into healthy well-functioning adults.. For those who don't feel that way BRAVO..Then therapy is easier for you but if it does happen to you someday then you won't feel superior to those of us who have had to deal with it and you will truly be able to understand.
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