Posted by Kath on January 12, 2008, at 15:26:26
In reply to h took a big step today » star008, posted by LlurpsieNoodle on January 11, 2008, at 18:00:46
> he acknowledged his anger towards me and set up an appt. with GP to get referral for marriage counselling.
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> I'm ***hoping*** that if he takes these steps himself that he will be more receptive to counselling.*******What wonderful news! That is really MAJOR!!****
> I'm trying really hard NOT to allow this to color my sense of self-worth. I thought my marriage was the strongest thing going in my life. was it an illusion? or is my life truly falling apart?
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> -Ll********I can relate.....in my 1st marriage, when my husband had an affair I felt the whole WORLD was falling apart. Try not to blame yourself. People change. People go through things (I'm referring to possibly your hubby). People encounter stresses in their own place of work that weakens their ability to deal as well with other areas of their life. Things get to them that might not have before. People keep things inside & then EVERYthing starts to bother them. Maybe your h is reassessing his career/ his life & is grieving about stuff that has nothing to do with you.
Please know that this might have VERY LITTLE to do with YOU!!!!!!!!
Please keep letting us support you & congratulations for doing so & for asking for hugs!!!
(((((((((((((((((((((((((you))))))))))))))))))))much love, Kath
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