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Re: Reentry

Posted by JoniS on January 3, 2008, at 9:06:21

In reply to Reentry, posted by Daisym on January 2, 2008, at 21:43:20

Daisy

I just wrote a long reply to your post and it disappeared into cybespace. I know for sure I didn't do anything wrong, so why does this happen?

I have to run now, but I so understand how you feel. But it is great that your T cares so much that he calls you and asks you to come in to talk after you cancel your appointments. I am sure that mine would not do that. He might call and say "... are you ok? I was concerned about you..." I would then be thinking that he was only getting himself off the hook for any part of how I am feeling.

Just try to say to yourself that you're stupind for allowing yourself to care so much about him and about your work together. -- That's what we do in therapy is care. We invest our emotions, and there isn't a measure of how much care is right and how much is wrong. All I know is if we didn't care about T, then the process would have no effect on us.

I hope your session today goes well and that you are able to work through some of the stuff.

Thanks for your post. I often have a difficult time reading them because they remind me so much of myself and my t situation. - that is good and bad.

Joni


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