Posted by sunnydays on November 4, 2007, at 21:34:13
In reply to Re: what to do when T doesn't know what to do? » sunnydays, posted by muffled on November 3, 2007, at 1:01:54
> SD. My T has been at a loss too.
> We have tried the public 'system', but not successful.....
> She has said she would like me to see p-doc, but I say, you know a decent one round here????**** Yeah, my new meds may finally be kicking in. But that's such a gamble, and it's definitely not all biological in my case.
> She has said maybe we can do DBT just you and me, I say to her...btwn you and me we don't got enuf continuity, which is the honest truth.
**** I did a DBT group. It helped some, but not enough. The coping skills just don't seem powerful enough to me.
> I truly beleive my T cares bout me, not sure WHY, but I beleive she does.
*** Good! I believe mine does too.
> So she stays with me.
> She hasn't abandonded me.
> She says she is 'modelling' someone not dumping me, but being consistantly supportive....**** Yeah, my T says he is modelling for me what good parents are supposed to be like for me. Because mine were horribly inconsistent and unsupportive, and that's what's missing for me.
> So, maybe its OK SD.
> Just like my T, your T not gonna run away so easy, cuz he cares for some reason.
> And that counts for LOTS.**** You're right muffled. It does count for quite a lot.
> Sometimes, lotsa times, its felt like I getting nowhere....but then I progress some, then I take two steps backs, but then I jump ahead...steadily improving...though sometimes it is hard to tell.
> Hang in there SD. Its gonna be OK.
> M**** Exactly. My T said progress will be slow instead of being as sharp an improvement as we would like.
sunnydays
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