Posted by rskontos on October 18, 2007, at 12:04:22
In reply to non touch I think mostly, not sure :-( (nm), posted by muffled on October 18, 2007, at 10:54:37
I hate touching too. I am ok with my children but we aren't all that huggey. Is that a word. Anyway, I am married to a Greek man and his family drives me crazy. They are so huggey and kissey it will send me over the edge. We do air kisses. After 20 years they finally get it but not the other relatives of his. So sometimes I have to grit my teeth and bear it. Now with my side of the family we dont ever hug. But then we are the messed up side on both sides so...the abusive side.
My one good friend is a non-toucher and that is great. We can cry with each other and only rarely will she ever offer to hug me. She knows. She told me just the other day that she had always felt if she pushed I would just disappear. She read me right. So I like that but she is going to move as soon as her house sells. Bummer. I trust her. But still dont want to hug.
I only like to cuddle with my dogs. They are safe. My kids will cuddle with me. I cuddle back because they deserve that. I didn't have it as a kid so I give it too them. But I don't cuddle or snuggle with my H and he does complain some. rk
I don't want hugs or anything with my T. Nope no way not there yet. I don't know if ever would be there.
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