Posted by TherapyGirl on July 13, 2007, at 20:52:19
In reply to Re: Therapy went pretty well *slight trigger*, posted by Honore on July 13, 2007, at 8:13:38
Thanks, Honore. What you've said is so true -- if I can just keep it in my head when we hit these bumps. I have to say there have been only two times in 22 years when I felt like she really wasn't with me. Unfortunately, the other time was during my major, major depression -- the year I was hospitalized twice.
I did try to do some work on myself, mostly around the anger. I think I've been presenting as so angry that she either couldn't see or found it easy to ignore the hurt parts. So last night I was much softer in my approach. I also think the week's break from each other did a lot of good. I think before last night we were getting pretty entrenched in our positions.
Thanks for the support and for understanding how difficult this has been.
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