Posted by Maria01 on July 11, 2007, at 20:29:53
In reply to Opinions and advice, please..., posted by TherapyGirl on July 11, 2007, at 17:34:03
It's worth a try. After addressing the non-returned phone call, just try the tactic your friend discussed, using your own words. I had to do that with my ex-T a lot. There were days when she was just so snotty with me it became unbearable. I would just look at her and say "You seem really frustrated right now. Time for a round of cards-on-the-table." Worked like a charm each time, and looking back, the problem was hers, not mine.
it depends on how you feel about authority in general.....I'm not intimidated by authority, so it wasn't hard for me for gently confront my T. You know your T best; you will need to do what is best for you in the end. If anything, if she rejects your comments, it will say a lot about her and will give you additional food for thought, IMO.
Either way, good luck to you and let us know how it goes...
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