Posted by TherapyGirl on May 21, 2007, at 20:52:44
In reply to Re: T Update LONG -- ** Trigger**, posted by Honore on May 21, 2007, at 10:38:11
Thanks for the comments, Honore. I'm pretty pleased with myself that I was able to stay annoyed and not move to fury, which is my normal pattern. I'm not sure why I was able to stay so grounded with this. I suspect it was because I had you Babblers backing me up and talking me through it.
I did not bring up the woman at all last week, although she had her session after mine again (that was supposed to be a "fluke"). But she didn't wait in the hall right outside the door -- she waited in the other hall.
But you are right that I did figure out that episode triggered all of my non-safety issues with the church itself.
I know it doesn't sound like it based on this interaction with her, but my T is generally very sensitive and reads me better than anyone else in my life. For some reason with this particular issue, she has had blinders on and I'm not sure why. But it always upsets me when I feel like she, who knows me better than anyone else, could miss a huge thing like this over and over again.
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