Posted by ElaineM on May 9, 2007, at 22:15:27
In reply to Re: Crying. Help me. » ElaineM, posted by muffled on May 8, 2007, at 23:29:22
>>>>I would think from her POV, she feels quite lost, cuz all she ever knows is parts of your life. To be an effective T she needs the whole picture.
When I write the longer emails, they are more of a "stream of consciousness" type thing. Though she did tell me to write her if it was helping me "process".
>>>>And T's are supposed to back off if they think they can't help the client. And maybe she feels she can't help you because she knows your holding stuff back.
That makes sense. I guess there's nothing she can really do to help me. Though her listening was helpful to me.
>>>>I think it would be important if you could tell her that you are very afraid, that you are confused by her actions, that you are hurt by them, that you desprately need help,
I did tell her that -- made sure it was in my reply.
>>>>but you dunno if you can trust her, and she's not that available, could she be?
I already know that she can't ever be my regular T again. But having the trust I had in her (that took me so long to let build) destroyed would ruin my faith in everyone from now on. Why did it have to be her?!
>>>>> El, I think you really need to come clean bout everything to one T, and maybe this T is the one.
I couldn't -- she seems like an alien to me now. Though to be fair, I wouldn't have before either. I'm alright with how that situation is now anyways.
Thanks Muffly.
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