Posted by gazo on April 2, 2007, at 10:33:27
In reply to Re: one down one to go » gazo, posted by Dinah on April 2, 2007, at 9:15:24
that is a VERY good point, and very true i think. i guess what i want, that i can't just say is that i need him to "get" how hurt i must be under all of this. i look and act so great, i don't look hurt. i did tell him that he has to hear what i don't say in between what i do and i begged him to ask me questions.. and about details. I suppose i do wish he could read my mind, wouldn't that be nice! But i think what i am wanting right now is for him to be able to just pick up on the fact that i am beggin for help in here somewhere. i cannot verbalize some things and i want him to be looking for that and to just ask me more to prompt me.
you gave me something to think about though. What am i supposed to do when i can't name what it is i need? That is where i am at a lot. Can't connect with it enough to know, but have a strong sense of desperation. i know i need *something.*
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