Posted by zenhussy on March 8, 2007, at 12:01:54
In reply to Re: Denial » littleone, posted by Poet on March 8, 2007, at 10:41:31
>>>I know I need to work through this in therapy (some day) and I know it won't be easy, but Daisy is doing it, you are doing it, maybe I can do it?<<<
you can do it Poet. you will when you're ready and not a day before. denial was survival for many reasons for many ppl. comes a time when denial no longer works as well and learning new ways of being and coping in this world become necessary as one realizes those old ways (denial) are no longer cutting it in this day and age.
only you'll know when you're ready to face this work in therapy.
what was unspeakable years ago has now been verbalized and written and is still being worked on but the ability to *feel* differently about life now after much therapeutic work we look back to where we were and how far we've come and it is amazing at times to think that for many years we believed talking=death. now we try to remember that AIDS activist group's slogan *silence=death*
comes a time when you'll no longer be able to remain silent.
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