Posted by wishingstar on March 7, 2007, at 9:00:38
In reply to NOW I figgered it, when T is away long time..., posted by Iwillsurvive on March 7, 2007, at 0:02:16
I think that's a good insight. Sometimes we do have to "shut down" some pieces of ourselves in order to keep ourself safe during hard times. For instance, I know I do it when I visit my parents. I just cant let the emotional side of me be "awake" then. And same thing when your T is gone. It's hard to have strong feelings and no one to be there to support them or support you. If babble is making things harder for you at the moment, then there's absolutely nothing wrong with pulling back a little until your T get backs, if it helps. We just want you to feel okay. :)
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