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Re: NOW I figgered it, when T is away long time... » littleone

Posted by Iwillsurvive on March 15, 2007, at 22:47:55

In reply to Re: NOW I figgered it, when T is away long time... » Iwillsurvive, posted by littleone on March 7, 2007, at 19:42:40

> I think it is important to try to minimise your triggers while you don’t have the support of your T nearby. So it’s okay to pull back and avoid threads/posts/posters that could send you into a spin.

**Yup keeping on the straight and narrow.
>
> But don’t forget that even while you do that, babble can still help you if you’d like it to. We can talk about safe things too. Like camp comfort, or your mossy place, or whole new wonderful places. Keeping a warm connection to people who care about you could help soothe you a bit.

*:) DEfinately
>
> Did you end up going to your last T session? I know you were thinking about ditching it. Did you and your T end up talking about ways to cope while she’s gone? I’d love to hear about them if you wanted to share.

*My T was caught up in some hard family stuff before she went, and in the last few sessions I was on 'perfectly well adjusted' mode so she wouldn't worry none. I'd already disconnected from her. So for those reasons no real plans were made. I did not goto last appt, I truly saw no point, and I think it was the right thing, for all the reasons above, I don't think we would have accomplished much if I had gone.

> You’ll get through this.

*yes i will, I am doing good! HA!!!!
>
> (And you’re not pathetic at all. Your zombied brain is a way to protect yourself. Protecting yourself is a very good thing. And with time you will learn more and better ways to protect yourself.)

*ya, she's taught me some good stuff, and now I don't dissociate so much its actually sinking in!
>
> You *will* get through this. And your T will be waiting for you on the other side.
>
*Ya...I kinda DON'T want her to come back!!LOL!! I am so fickle, but then I'll have to deal with the kid AND I DON'T WANT TO.
But I am sick of wallowing. We don't want to be like this anymore.
Thanks for reply littleone :)


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