Posted by sunnydays on February 17, 2007, at 18:11:08
In reply to Re: why don't friends understand?, posted by Daisym on February 16, 2007, at 23:17:48
> Too many people only know about attachment to a therapist based on what they see on TV. They think missing him makes you pathologically dependent. Those of us who know better know you are in pain and he helps you bear the pain. Of course you miss him.
**** But is it really ok to be so dependent? I'm so scared he'll get sick of me. Obviously if he offered to go to twice a week he doesn't think he will, but it scares me. I had a bad dream last night that he had gone and been in this class, and he talked to someone there and they told him he had to not see me as much, and he wrote me this whole long letter that he was still there, but not as much. It scared me. Because I'm so so scared he'll get sick of me. He says he won't....but it's so hard to believe.
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> Do you have plans for the weekend? Can you distract yourself a little to make the time pass faster?**** Lots and lots of homework. Lots and lots...
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> I'm sorry you are struggling so much right now. There seems to be a lot of that going around. If you want to say more about why, I'll be around to listen.
*** I don't know why I'm struggling, really. I just am. I get so intensely sad sometimes.sunnydays
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