Posted by peddidle on February 14, 2007, at 21:25:08
In reply to Re: Disappointing your T » peddidle, posted by Dinah on February 14, 2007, at 8:40:33
> I suppose I tend to feel that way sometimes. I try to remember that a therapist can do what a therapist does because they have the ability to stand back and not respond personally to what happens to us.
**Very true, but at the same time, we also want to be special to our T's.
> On the other hand, I remember a time when I felt a lot of frustration from my therapist, and our relationship was sinking in it. I started giving him positive feedback around that time about the ways I was finding therapy useful. I'm not sure that it was the therapy correct thing to do, but it was pragmatic and did improve situation.
**I'm glad it worked-out for you.
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