Posted by LadyBug on December 21, 2006, at 1:43:29
In reply to Re: Now I hate my T :(, posted by muffled on December 20, 2006, at 14:56:18
First I'm sorry you're hurting. And to wait till January 9th with these feelings just isn't right! Do you want to talk about why you're pissed at her? I think we all hate our T's at some time or another. I know I have and many times I've threatened to quit because it hurts so much. I would call her if I were you and say what you said, "your pissed, Merry Christmas". I would hope she would call you back and try to help understand why you're pissed at her. Quitting is a way for us to avoid the hurt, or at least it sounds like it would work at the time. I know it wouldn't help me in the long run. I've been at the quitting point so many times. A few things make me hang on, one of them is; if I quit, how will I ever work out what I'm pissed off about, and the other thing is my T will tell me if she's made a mistake, that has hurt me, that she'd never intentionally hurt me and if she did she's sorry and the most important thing here is to remember and give her credit for all the good things she's done over the years.
Is this helpful for you to think about? I hope so cuz you've said some positive things about your T and I think you benefit from your work with her.
Let us know what happens next and I'm wishing you the best here.
LadyBug
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