Posted by Dinah on December 20, 2006, at 13:52:16
In reply to Now I hate my T :(, posted by muffled on December 20, 2006, at 13:46:11
Not stupid.
Hate... Well, you generally don't hate people you don't care about. So is it possible that you care about her very much and she hurt you a lot, even if it wasn't intentional? It's ok to be very angry with her till she comes back, but don't direct that anger at yourself, please? My therapist would ask me what I'd want my son to do if he were feeling like harming himself, and then to realize that I deserve the same answer.
They shouldn't be allowed to walk away. Not for weeks at a time. And there should be a special rule about upsetting the client before a break.
I'm reminding my therapist of that rule this week.
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