Posted by Jost on October 24, 2006, at 22:57:05
In reply to I'm such an idiot, posted by mair on October 24, 2006, at 22:08:56
Yeah, maybe you are-- maybe we all are-- I mean not idiots but groping human beings who often feel like one-- and aren't sure what to do or say-- how to make it better for ourselves and the people we care about-
but I'm pretty sure that you did okay-- she probably understands and accepts and maybe worries, but also hopes-- the she and you will be much better soon-- that you'll both survive this--
and it will be important and something to work on-- after you've both made it.
It's possibly the best you can do to accept feeling as if you screwed up-- and just let that feeling flow through you-- and also let in the feeling that maybe it's okay to screw up--- it's not forever, or the only thing
You're doing great-- in a bad bad situation-- where getting through it in one piece is what you need to do.
sorry though that you have to.
Jost
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