Posted by Dinah on October 7, 2006, at 12:12:08
In reply to Re: Here we go again, posted by happyflower on October 7, 2006, at 12:00:00
No, I've told him everything. Even my deepest darkest secret that I really didn't want to tell him.
Sometimes he forgets things, so it's like telling him afresh.
He swears he's not bored, and I'm not sure he really is bored, although I feel boring. I don't generally *feel* boredom from him.
Really, it's more of an old married old shoe feeling. Which is good in some ways.
I do better when I see him regularly than when I don't. That's just a fact. When I don't see him I'm unproductive and prone to meltdowns. I have an overexcitable nervous system, and seeing him prevents meltdowns. It's definitely ongoing supportive therapy rather than exploratory therapy. And he's ok with that and so am I.
I just wish I could spice things up a bit, keep the intensity at a higher level. Just like an old married couple need to keep things interesting.
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