Posted by bird in the sky on September 24, 2006, at 20:46:49
In reply to Okay - BPD, posted by Susan47 on September 24, 2006, at 13:13:41
Hi Susan47
I remember you from a long time ago. i remember you talking about how your T left you, i thought.
i remember thinking, god, what a heartbreak, what a shock. I hope you find one who shows how he/she cares about you. i almost lost mine, because i crossed boundaries after he told me he would drop me if i did. It was only luck that i didn't i guess. so i could understand how it could happen. i also understand how it's almost uncontrollable how we replay those rejection things. we do things so people will reject us, we feel so so bad when they do or angry. It is so hard to get out of this cycle. I don't do it too much anymore but still do. I went thru a long therapy that helped me to have compassion for my parents and understand they got it from theirs. so that helped a lot. i hope you can concentrate on the good, yummy things you like about life and think about the possibilities of nice relationships, you know you've felt what it's like! I also believe in prayer. pls hang in there and let us know how you are. Bird
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