Posted by frida on July 2, 2006, at 18:14:39
In reply to Re: Projective identification stands up/ recognize, posted by daisym on July 2, 2006, at 15:38:14
Hi,
I think my T has mentioned something like this to me.
she's said that somehow I reproduce my abuse situation in T and even if I am the one "hurting" someone with my actions (her, in this way, because I act in a way to bring the worst out of her, sometimes) I turn it around so that I look like the victim and she like the one "abusing" me,and then I feel the pain of the victim I was, but in reality I am making her feel like the victim I was ,with my actions...It is confusing and hard to explain but she has told me that what I do , has helped her understand how I felt while my father abused me...that I have made her "feel" it, on another level.I am not being clear , but this is what came to my mind...
love,
Frida
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