Posted by susan47 on May 26, 2006, at 13:33:04
In reply to Re: frustrated with T... » Karolina, posted by orchid on May 26, 2006, at 13:16:58
Sometimes, the way things are said make all the difference in the world. Sometimes, the best of intentions can be screwed up because the tone of voice was wrong, or the timing was incorrect, or perhaps .. perhaps there's denial, huge denial and resentment that goes on at having to admit you effed up ... that this person suffered from your own incompetency and damn it .. that is a hard thing to admit.. and that this person now has to walk away, and leave your sight and vision forever, knowing that They failed You because you feel angry ...
Unable to love this person,
Even though they loved you as much as they could. So hard. To try so hard, to spill, to change, to Be Whole .. and told that "No, I whom you have looked up to for these many months, I who have entered your every thought, I who have kept you company with the visions of my face eternally written upon your mind .. I cannot help you any longer."
My god.
How much can one person bear?
The voices of harshness ... when he tells you he cannot help you, you must respect that. Toss aside the vision you had of yourself, as One who was worthy of this person .. to one who is no longer.
The dogma of reality burns like a whip ....
Please do not make it worse. Please do not make it worse.
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