Posted by frida on May 24, 2006, at 12:35:52
In reply to my T called, posted by happyflower on May 24, 2006, at 12:23:01
Dear Happyflower,
I think these things need to be talked about in person..Countless times I've imagined or thought my T didn't care about me because of a note she wrote or a message she left on the phone and when I go and see her and talk with her it all feels differently...
I so understand, just a few days ago I was feeling my T didn't care, because she wrote a very short e-mail just saying "I'll see you on Friday", in response to one in which I was sharing a lot. But I know it's because she doesn't like to write much or talk on the phone and she wants us to talk. I think maybe your T prefers this, it is a delicate, important topic and I feel he'll want to discuss it in person...
I don't know, I think I would go and talk to him and see how he reacts...I am so sorry you are feeling he doesn't care. That's such a painful feeling. I hope you can talk to him...I'd keep the appointment and see what he says...
sending you support,
Frida
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