Posted by bassman on May 1, 2006, at 15:41:48
In reply to So confused and upset, posted by Daisym on May 1, 2006, at 2:45:31
For a couple years after I got divorced I had this huge fear that somehow I was going to get sucked back into the whole disfunctional, sick thing again. I think it was because I was afraid of my ex-wife so much-she was capable of doing anything, no matter how cruel, to her own ends.
I keep my drapes closed after I moved out because I thought people were looking in and knew what a horrible person I was to get divorced. Sort of funny now. I, perhaps like you, just couldn't take any more emotional pain and had to get out of the situation: that was my crime. This really is a crazy time-don't let anyone tell you otherwise. Best of luck.
bassman
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