Posted by gardenergirl on April 4, 2006, at 16:24:12
In reply to Re: Others' impression of your progress » gardenergirl, posted by Racer on April 2, 2006, at 14:41:31
> Could be your husband is looking at how closely you conform to a norm he's set based on his own criteria.
Yeah, I suspect it's more of the process/outcome difference again. So much we differ on seems to come down to that. So I suppose I need to set my own criteria and trust the process is leading me to a good outcome.
> Just watching what I can see, I see clear signs of improvement in you.Thanks for saying that. I feel good when I'm figuring stuff out on my own, and I seem to have less need to make sure to "check it out" with my T. Although I'm checking it out with others now. Progress, still. :)
> You know? That's kinda scary...Yeah it is.
>Of course, those standards you mentioned are good, too. That's the thing that still annoys me when I get frustrated with therapy and get into my "insight/schminsight mood.
And of course thinking about where getting better leads? Now THAT's scary. (Run away! Run away!)
Thanks,
gg
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