Posted by annierose on April 2, 2006, at 13:34:25
In reply to Re: Others' impression of your progress » gardenergirl, posted by fallsfall on April 2, 2006, at 12:17:31
I understand why you need that. And yes, on the boards you are more self-confident and tend to argue less (especially on admin) --- although I must admit, I loved when someone decided to challenge you. I loved how you replied, with wit, intelligence and the like.
My husband does tell me that I'm so much happier since going to therapy. But on the other hand, he sees I'm harder on him (as it should be). Even my kids notice I'm listening better. AND ... my landlord (of all people) said at a luncheon meeting (my lease is up @ work), "Annie, you seem so much happier lately. I don't know what it is about you, but all your angst is gone."
So I have received that validation, and that is nice. I know what you mean when you say you feel lighter. Yes, that is so true. Life is less of a burden. I'm not carrying around so much baggage --- except those last dark crevices that I need to clean out and those last 10 pounds I'd love to lose!!
Maybe your husband doesn't like all the changes, or wishes the changes were different. Ask him if you seem lighter in tone?
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