Posted by Dinah on March 12, 2006, at 10:29:40
In reply to Re: Sorry I'm cranky, everyone :( (nm), posted by All Done on March 8, 2006, at 17:21:08
Inspired by your post about being cranky.
I hadn't really noticed you were cranky.
Maybe the healing aspect, for you, will be to be able to get truly angry this time. At all the things you've ever wanted but haven't been able to have. Of all the times you've wanted more and haven't been able to get it. Maybe the difference this time is that you don't have to take it silently or in good humor or by being understanding. Maybe the healing can come in a supermegatransference. So that you can get super-angry, then grieve, and then be able to see it as something you've grieved and moved along from. Although grief always sticks with us, the sort you acknowledge and live through is supposed to interfere with our lives less.
Just a crazy idea, and may be worth what all my early morning (yes, it's early morning for me) ideas are worth.
poster:Dinah
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