Posted by sleepygirl on February 28, 2006, at 15:17:45
In reply to Re: i can't do it anymore » TherapyGirl, posted by asmita on February 28, 2006, at 13:49:51
oh boy, this really sounds like it hurts
Your post really touched me because I had such a hard time in the beginning of therapy talking, some of us just do (and going through that, by the way, is "work")
I feel like you're saying like he's impatient with you, feeling like you're not giving enough, resisting help or something. "Resistance" as they call it, is not a bad thing, not intentional, not about you not wanting it bad enough, or some negative connotation about you. It's whatever gets in the way for you, and also ulimately the work of therapy because that's likely what might get between you and a lot of other things in life.
For whatever reason he doesn't want to stick it out, I don't know what his reasons are, or how he works, but I'm not sure he's appreciating how hard this might be for you.
I think you should go to that last session, and tell him what you've said here.
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