Posted by fairywings on February 15, 2006, at 12:51:54
In reply to Re: T avoided my ? about attachment, posted by pegasus on February 15, 2006, at 9:11:41
thanks peg,i feel so stupid now for spilling my guts. I feel sick. trust has been such big issue for me - but i was moving beyond that.
The problem was my T didn't respond AT ALL! He rambled on and on about something else, repeating himself every way possible, until it just seemed he HAD to be avoiding the attachment issue. I was so hurt! It took so much for me to be able to tell him that in my note.
The perfect answer? All I wanted him to say is, this is perfectly normal, it's a good thing, it's a step in the right direction, and I'm okay with it. But now I feel humiliated and stupid for spilling my guts.
I'm so thankful for the babble support, because I couldn't feel more stupid right now. I've decided to go back, he said we'd cover the rest of the note next week. Hopefully, like daisy kind of said, maybe I"m over reacting, maybe it wasn't his intention to dodge what I said. I have a bad habit of "mind reading". So, I will hope for the best and prepare for the worst.
thanks,
fw
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