Posted by fairywings on January 29, 2006, at 23:40:52
In reply to (((((((FW))))))))), posted by happyflower on January 29, 2006, at 17:41:17
Thanks Alex, LW, James, GG, Susan and HF, you're all so thoughtful.
T also says accept where you are. and it helped to think his voice might someday be louder than my parents, that would be awesome. I guess the beginning is hard because you start to see things as they really are/were. Can EMDR help with things in general, or do you have to have a specific situation you're working on? When I start to think, the stuff starts swirling around and I can't zero in on just one thing, it all starts to hit me at once. I will talk to pdoc bec. I worry abt my blood pressure going up and chasing the anxiety w/pills.
James, I moved away 10 years ago, and it helped a bit to put some distance there and not have contact very often, but even when they died I still hear it and see it. T says they can die but you have to bury them. I guess that's in line w/what GG said - one day his voice might be louder. I'm sorry you're feeling stuck too.
Thanks for caring,
fw
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