Posted by gardenergirl on January 26, 2006, at 19:48:37
In reply to Re: Didn't expect this---transference and termination » gardenergirl, posted by annierose on January 26, 2006, at 19:11:06
> > Why did you think it was a "bad" sign to want to share photos with your T? I don't think it's a sign either way. You have shared so much of yourself with him using words, so now it's a picture. I see it as another way to express yourself.
Thanks for that validation. I guess I thought it was a bad sign because it felt regressed or maybe that I was clinging or something...I don't know. Like I should be okay without feeling the need to make him smile at how darned cute I was. :-)
I guess it's that irrational fear of/shame of feeling dependent or too connected. But sheesh, connected is good.
sigh
gg
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> You've done good GG!
> Welcome back to my part of town. I'm heading to the BIG APPLE at 6:30 a.m. --- seriously, just what was I thinking when I booked that reservation?
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