Posted by Anneke on January 20, 2006, at 9:37:54
In reply to Feeling broken, posted by jammerlich on January 19, 2006, at 20:53:13
((Jammer))
You are not weak or pathetic or any of those other shaming statements that I suspect are swirling around your head right now. You are a caring human being who is still mourning a significant loss because you haven't had a chance to process it with someone....you've had to keep it all inside of you. And, I suspect, there are more feelings that are being kept locked up inside you too that have everything and nothing to do with your therapist.
Unfortunately this needy miserable child needs exactly what you feel least like giving her....space to feel her feelings. Can you let her write it out or draw it out or something? I KNOW it feels horribly icky. Wish I could do more...but know you're not bad for feeling this way. Is there any way you could call your ex-T and make an appointment?
Anneke
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