Posted by LauraBeane on December 9, 2005, at 19:20:18
In reply to Re: Forced distance (long) » LauraBeane, posted by Tamar on December 9, 2005, at 15:03:42
Thanks for remembering me Tamar, and for your kind words!
Yes you are right, when my T pulls back and pulls back so strongly, it feels to me as if I have shared aloud something better left unsaid. It is very hard. Most recently, a topic came up that brought us into an intense discussion which ended too soon, nearly mid-sentence, but I left feeling really connected & good despite the difficult subject matter. But the following week, everything had changed. The distance is palpable, as I think it is meant to be.
You mention the rhythm in therapy, Cine also mentioned the pace of therapy and the problem of flooding. I am sure I am a flooder. (word?) Perhaps I need to see if we circle back to it on a less intense level.
Talking about it is such a relief. Thank you for your valuable two cents, worth much more than that to me.
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