Posted by Tamar on December 9, 2005, at 17:36:29
In reply to Re: totally losing it here :*** ( *warning** » Tamar, posted by Frida on December 9, 2005, at 17:18:37
Hi (((((Frida)))))
I just read Dinah’s post to you, and it made a lot of sense to me. And still I can hear the struggle in your post….
I remember you saying before that you wanted to be able to cry with her. And I remember that I almost never cried in therapy, even when I expected I would… even when I was hurting very much. Sometimes I wanted to cry with my therapist; I hoped he would comfort me.
It’s really hard to cry with someone, because you never really know how they’ll react.
It really is difficult. Very difficult. Don’t be too hard on yourself. If you can share before she leaves, that might give you some relief. But if it turns out to be too difficult, don’t beat yourself up. You can spend her away-time thinking about how to tell her. It will keep, and she *will* be back to hear you.
Please do remember that you can post here as often as you need to.
Tamar
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