Posted by allisonross on December 8, 2005, at 14:56:26
In reply to Re: Green Light-Tempest in a t - pot/TriggerAbuse » allisonross, posted by one woman cine on December 8, 2005, at 11:25:17
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Hi! Thankyou. That comment "I am sorry you are feeling criticized" is perfect. Tells me you heard me. That's all we really need......to be heard.
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> I am sorry you are feeling criticized. I think you can possibly have alot to add to discussions b/c you have so much experience. I personally don't think anyone was criticizing you.yes, it was a criticism...not important to go into again.
Life is hard, & no one wants to make it any harder for anyone else. I do hope you continue to post - I would sincerely hope, however, you do so keeping in mind what previous posters have said - that being lighthearted is necessary, but some joking can be construed by others as hurtful and offensive - depending on where a person happens to be on their journey in life.
I understand that, but how is one to know what is/is not offensive, etc.? This is difficult to know.
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> I think it's really important to try to see things from someone else's perspective and respect their particular boundaries, even if you may not agree with it or understand it.I agree.
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> Abuse is rough & can really do a number on you, I think alot of people can relate to that. But just as you may be sensitive to criticism, some folks here are sensitive to sexual issues regarding their therapist. I hope you are able to strike a balance.It's best that I don't mention the therapist/me relationship again, cause I have no idea what I should/should not post; way too confusing. Best of luck.
Thankyou, and hugs, Ally
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